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Life Insurance, 'Til Death Do Us Part 


November 1, 2014
Written by Lynne C. Halem

The negotiations are finished; after all the time and effort spent in generating proposals and compromising on terms, a deal has been reached.  After a sigh of relief, not to mention a few pats on the back, another issue is raised.

Despite the obvious logic of both sides of the argument, the simple truth is that many judges do expect you, the paying spouse or spouses, to provide monetary guarantees in the event of death.

Couples engaged in mediation often approach death protection in a matter-of-fact, but thoughtful manner.  The questions to be answered are driven by what the total monetary obligation is, as stipulated in your Agreement.  Are they some or all of the following?

The total of each party’s commitments is tabulated with applicable adjustments taken for tax deductible payments such as alimony and for the present day valuation of the total sum.  This is the number that will constitute each party’s obligation—alive or dead.

Since it is also obvious that today’s financial obligation does not reflect your pledge in the future, many couples agree to provide for reductions in required collateral pledges over time.  Others agree to built-in reductions in the agreement, mandating specific sums at different intervals.  For example, life insurance may, if the parties so elect, be reduced annually, every five years,  or perhaps at the time of certain events (e.g., child’s high school graduation).  The list of conceivable adjustments is long, and limited only by the parties’ imagination.  And, too, there are couples who simply agree to maintain a specific amount of coverage without reduction for a specified period of time.

Financing the Life Insurance

Not irrelevant to the shaping of the terms for life insurance coverage is the cost of and availability of coverage.  Here more questions arise:

Not infrequently life insurance is too expensive to maintain for the full term of your obligations.  In the event of this occurrence, individuals may elect to pledge a combination of assets and insurance or even rely solely on an asset pledge.  In the latter case, the payer self-insures his or her financial obligations.

Can Mediation Help?

Mediation provides a forum conducive to structuring collateral pledges based on real dollar analysis of need. Together the parties compute the over time cost of their obligations and confront any obstacles interfering with the provision of total death protection.  This, as the rest of your agreement, requires thoroughness and thoughtfulness.  The need to protect your family in the event of your death is important, but so too is your ability to finance your pledge.  Obligations need to be met and individuals need to be self-supporting.  In the final analysis you need to devise a workable agreement based on an in depth consideration of each party’s commitments and ability to fund its cost over time. 

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