Divorce is a time of major decision-making…
Divorcing couples quickly realize that they need to determine how to divide their assets, how to structure custodial arrangements for their children, and how much support will be exchanged. Most divorcing couples come to the table knowing that division of assets, time with children, and money are all areas central to reaching a settlement. Others are aware that they also need to address questions pertaining to health insurance coverage and even life insurance. Few, however, consider the tax implications of their agreements.
At the Centre for Mediation and Dispute Resolution, we suggest that all agreements should include consideration of tax implications, lest you realize tomorrow that the agreements you reached do not provide you with the moneys you anticipated at the time of settlement.
The following represents a sampling of areas with tax implications, which should be included, where applicable, in your divorce settlement:
Child-Related Taxes:
Real Estate Sales
Investment Gains and Losses
Retirement Funds
Life Insurance Policies (w/Equity)
Term Life Insurance
Transfer of Property
Support
Child support is received by the recipient as nontaxable income. As such, the paying spouse makes the payment in after-tax dollars. Revised Child Support Guidelines were effective as of December 1, 2025. Among other changes include an increase of the maximum combined available gross income of the parents to be used in the child support calculation from $400,000 to $450,000. In cases where the gross combined income exceeds the sum of $450,000, the award of child support, at the $450,000 level, shall constitute the minimum presumptive order with the court having discretion to increase the assigned support sum. (Further details: https://www.bostonmediation.com/child-support-guidelines-update-reseleased)
Alimony
Since January 1, 2019, alimony is non-taxable income to the recipient and therefore mirrors child support payments in its impact. Parties need to analyze their net income in comparison to each one’s budgetary needs in the crafting of a support agreement.
It is important to note that the terms of your agreement can result in a taxable event unintended by the parties. Therefore support payments need to be structured with full awareness of the tax pitfalls and implications under various situations.
The above list constitutes only a smattering of the many tax implications inherent in each couple’s divorce settlement. In order to protect both spouses from unpleasant surprises, it is crucial for both parties to understand what they are receiving and what they are really giving up in fashioning their agreement. Often parties can create better, more beneficial agreements, by “giving” to their spouse in areas that will not have a negative impact on their own settlement. The problem-solving element of mediation presents an ideal forum for analyzing tax implications and weighing their “value” to each party…. In the end, the parties’ agreement should focus on tax savings and advantages to be achieved by both parties sharing the common goal of optimizing the “goodness” of their agreement for the family.
Updated from 2016 edition.